You're a giver
You're very good at listening to the man you love, and understand exactly what he wants. You make sure you satisfy his every desire, and love buying presents and watching his face as he opens them. Very supportive, you help him through the bad times and will go to great lengths to make things easier for him. As long as he's happy, you're happy, but you suffer when you're apart, as you can't show him your love. If he left you, your world would crumble, and you would try everything to win him back, even though you sometimes feel a little hard done by ("Ungrateful so-and-so, after everything I've done for him!"). Be careful not to lose your own identity in a one-way relationship, if you concentrate too hard on pleasing him, you'll end up forgetting about your own needs and wants. Constantly worrying about him may leave him feeling smothered too, you risk pushing him away by being over-protective. A lack of self-confidence could be at the bottom of your desire to keeping giving more and more of yourself, think back to your childhood, did you often feel worthless? If this is the problem, try to build up your self-esteem and learn to put yourself first. Let yourself enjoy life as well, give your partner the chance to spoil you once in a while - sometimes selfish is good!
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