You're a taker
You seem to demand a lot of attention from your partner. Maybe you only feel like he loves you when he's with you, and you want to be the centre of his world twenty-four-seven, because you only feel relaxed and happy when he's there and meeting your needs. Be careful not to depend on him for your happiness, or your own state of mind could be affected. If he ever left you, or was even too busy to lavish you with attention, you would find things really hard, so look at the real reasons behind your clinginess, maybe it's down to a lack of recognition from your parents, or low self-esteem. If this is the case, then you must realise that no-one will ever be able to make this up to you apart from your parents, and stop putting the burden onto other relationships, which may not be able to take the strain. Confront your demons and take responsibility for your own happiness. You're expecting too much from your partner, use your own ressources and develop your own interests to help you enjoy life. If you feel weak, strengthen your mind with meditation, or pick a good self-help book to get to the root of your problem. The stronger you are, the easier it will be for you to feel fulfilled and happy without relying on someone else.
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