| You Can't Do Enough for Others... |
 Generally speaking, you are there for those around you and listen to their problems. The people you meet realise this, and appreciate your generosity and discretion. In fact, they seem to like the fact that you don't dominate the conversation, and are more there to listen than impose your views on others. Even if you don't agree with what people say, you are diplomatic about it as you like your friends and family to feel comfortable, and enjoy having people's respect.
Maybe you are afraid of rejection or conflict, as you are only really happy in calm, welcoming atmospheres, which allow you to feel safe. Your behaviour towards others shows that you are very warm, and always ready with a comforting word, but be careful - your relationships can be a little one-sided. You sometimes end up doing all the giving, and in listening to other people's problems you often lose sight of your own needs. Don't let this get you down.
Stop thinking that people are only interested in you if you are there for them - you have so much more to offer, you just need to be aware of it. Work on your self-esteem. Even if you've put yourself down or other people have misjudged you in the past, have confidence in your abilities to receive as much as you give. Make other people listen to your problems too, you're worth it!
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