 Too Many Disagreements...
You aren't always both on the same wavelength, in fact you regularly lose his signal. When one wants to hit the town, the other wants to stay in, when one enjoys a TV programme, the other hates it - in fact we're wondering what you're doing together!
Maybe you need a relationship based on sparring. Take a look at your past, to see if you can find anything that could explain your desire for competition and self-preservation. Maybe you grew up used to having to defend your position in the family? Or maybe you're afraid of finding yourself under the thumb? This could be why you're almost always on the defensive, trying to prove yourself. It must be exhausting to live like that every day! Work through this unconscious need you have, otherwise you will end up stuck in a repetitive cycle of rocky relationships.
If you can see your disagreements in a more constructive manner, you will be able to transform your idea of a romantic relationship into something much more enjoyable. Maybe then you will have a shared vision and walk off, hand in hand, into the sunset…
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