 A Forced Relationship...
Your answers show that you are holding on to the image of a happy, loving couple, yet you seem to have more frustration in your relationship than happiness. What does this mean? Maybe you want to believe in everlasting love and your idealised union speaks volumes about your fears. Maybe you are afraid of an emotional failure or rejection, or have suffered painful break-ups in the past which force you to see your relationships through rose-tinted glasses. If you are just starting to see someone, this is perfectly natural, but if you have been together for a while, you need to take a look at your things and see if you are really on an equal footing. You may very well want the same things, but is it always the same person giving and the same taking? This fragile harmony breeds a feeling of dependence, of one partner having to look after the other more than themselves to keep the relationship going. Real compatibility is only possible if each of you is free to live your own lives. It would be great if you could both realise your dreams together and develop understanding and complicity, so take the bull by the horns and express yourself. That way you can enjoy things, as they develop into your romantic ideal.
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