Your heart's not really in it...
You're always a bit dubious when people start talking about New Year's resolutions. Of course there are things that you would like to change in your life, but it seems pointless to throw yourself into a huge commitment as if there was a good fairy to help you along the way. You find the whole thing a little naive, and to a certain extent you're right. Wishing isn't enough, you have to really believe for the magic to work! You have no faith in yourself, whenever you set yourself a goal you are sceptical about reaching it. Can I do it? Is it too much? - why are you so afraid of failure?
Think about why you have such low self-esteem. Maybe you received a lot of criticism when you were growing up. Stop limiting yourself, even if others did it for you in the past! think about what you really want at work and in your lovelife, there's no reason why you can't have it. The more confidence you have in yourself, the more you will find things going your way. Make your dreams into reality, even the ones you've held on to for years - go on, you can do it!
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