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- 15 If I say no, he won't want me any more.
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False.
If you love your partner, you owe it to him to
listen to his desires and try to understand them.
But listening doesn't mean that you have to like
what you hear, or do something you don't feel
comfortable with. It's normal for two people not
to want the same things in bed, or like the same
ideas. It is however, important to respect these
differences.
If your partner suggests something that you don't
want to do, say no. Try asking why this particular
thing is so important to him, then take that on
board with "I understand, but no, I don't
want to."
By doing something in bed that you don't really
feel comfortable with you are abusing yourself
and showing a lack of self-respect. This will
leave you feeling bad about yourself, your partner
and your sex life.
Your partner can't respect you if you don't respect
yourself. And you can't love someone who you don't
respect, so you will do more harm to your relationship
by saying yes, than no. |
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