12 steps to the Big O7- Set the rhythm

7- Set the rhythm

Everyone has their own means of reaching orgasm: some people need very slow and regular movements, while others prefer quickening thrusts. Each and every one of us is different so it’s important to explain to your partner what works for you. It might seem a bit awkward but if you never talk about it, he might think he’s doing fine when he’s actually wide of the mark! Trying telling him what feels amazing rather than telling him what isn’t working – remember men have fragile egos!

Choose the right position for your legs - Forget about covering the whole Kama Sutra - Breathe - Move - Fake it to boost arousal - Get him talking - Set the rhythm - Stimulate (or have your partner stimulate) your clitoris - Ask him to caress your breasts - Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles - Fantasise - Practise on your own

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