
Don't pretend it's nothing.
You're right to say "Don't worry, it doesn't matter"
- apart from the fact that he is worrying and to him,
it does matter! He may know it's not life or death,
but it is sexual murder to belittle his problems. Statistically,
it may be more normal than not, but it won't stop him
from getting down about it. By brushing it off as nothing,
you'll make him feel like you don't care, which will
make things even worse. |
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