Male orgasm may be easier to reach than female orgasm, but according to a recent survey, 29% of men have sometimes ejaculated without feeling pleasure and 18% have faked an orgasm...so it's not as 'automatic' as that.

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Male orgasm may be easier to reach than female orgasm, but according to a recent survey, 29% of men have sometimes ejaculated without feeling pleasure and 18% have faked an orgasm...so it's not as 'automatic' as that.
What is a male orgasm?
When intense sexual stimulation leads to ejaculation, a nerval influx towards the genital organs provokes contractions at the prostate, the canals that transport sperm, and the pelvic muscles, the thighs and the base of the penis. Simultaneously the heart beat and breathing accelerate and blood pressure increases. He experiences intense pleasure, a feeling of floating on ecstasy which only lasts a few seconds. This is when he releases sperm that rises up his penis (ejaculation).
How to improve orgasm?
Naturally, masturbation can lead to orgasm simply by ejaculation, but during sex the arousal is much stronger and the pleasure is generally more intense. Also, even though pleasure can be easy to achieve, with practice men can learn to delay their orgasm and come more intensely. In the case of successive orgasms, the second or third can be more pleasurable than the first.
Difficulties reaching orgasm
Problems with orgasms can be down to physiological reasons (age or illness) or psychological reasons (depression, lack of self-confidence, anger, anxiety, guilt, boredom, fear of not being able to come,etc). A man's ability to prgasm can also be affected by alcohol, anti-depressants and anti-psychotics. A lack of desire and insufficient arousal can also cause difficulty reaching orgasm.
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