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Why embrace it?
Because it's better to ask too many questions than not enough, that way no-one can accuse you of never taking an interest in anyone else. Also because if you hadn't peeked through your boyfriend's diary, you would never have known what he was preparing for your birthday and you'd have turned up in killer heels for your maiden helicopter flight.

Handling your curiosity
Be discreet and subtle. Ask questions without letting on the true extent of your nosiness! Act surprised, encouraging the other person to tell you more: "I can't get over it, Sophie couldn't have left her bloke, she seemed so happy!" And from that you'll then get down to the juicy details ("That's not the last of it though - she's run off with a woman!" etc.)