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Why embrace it?
Because it's therapeutic. And if you buy three jumpers, two dresses and a pair of trews with 50% discount, just think of the amount you've saved! New clothes make you feel good, which makes you happier and more motivated...you'll never have to waste your hard-earned cash on therapy or life coaching. Shopping is good for the economy. And you're being altruistic keeping Shelly's in business.

Handling your spending
Be generous with your spending. Keep in his good books by getting him a little something each time you go on a spree (a tie, shirt or pair of socks). Show him you're thinking of him and he'll only grumble a little when he finds out you've bought yet another pair of shoes.