Reserved doesn’t necessarily mean cold. You’re not always at ease in your relationships with other people, in situations when you don’t know anyone – at parties, for example. Going up to people and approaching them is really hard for you.
Your tactics: Observation.
You’re not keen on those people who seem to be totally at ease and totally pally with strangers from the word go. In public and in private, you keep yourself to yourself. You’re secretive by nature and you have a mysterious side. You can be reserved because you’re afraid of being hurt or betrayed if you open yourself up to people.
But you’re far from cold: you’re very sensitive and you’re capable of great warmth, but you need to trust people before you open up to them. Then you find communication easy – you lose your reserve, you stop questioning yourself, and you find harmony in your relationships with others.