How?

With the Hands:  Our hands are our main tools.  They can give pleasure, by stroking, pressing, scratching, pinching, massaging and squeezing.  They can create different sensation when cold, icy, warm or burning hot, dry, damp or oiled for massage and gentle caresses.  Be creative with your hands between the sheets!  They play a part in lovemaking from start to finish, foreplay to orgasm.  Simultaneous masturbation is often done with the hands, but this is definitely not a solo activity!  Manual stimulation is very important, especially when penetration is not possible for some reason.

 With the Mouth:  Using your mouth starts with kissing.  It can embrace, nibble, bite, blow softly, lick and kiss.  We can use our lips, tongue, teeth and saliva to stimulate each other, whether kissing the mouth or any other part of the body, especially the genitals.  The mouth can be even more effective than the hands in some cases, as it produces completely different sensations and is more sensitive.

With the Body:  We often forget about the body itself, we’re so intent on concentrating on certain parts of it!  We can use the feet, knees, shoulders, breasts, elbows, hair, in fact any part you can think of can be used to give pleasure.  Even pushing and rubbing with the whole body, using pressure on your partner can create intense pleasure.  Surprise yourself and your partner with new caresses.