Fantasies and sexual enjoyment

For men, sex is a physical need more than anything else, whereas for women sex is more 'in the mind,' right?

Error. Big error. Imagination is just as important for men as it is for us ladies - the only difference being that women are more likely to actually express their imagination. 
It's well know that women are more likely to express themselves clearly in general, so why should things be any different between the sheets?!