Leah: "I don't"

Leah, 26, primary school teacher, currently single.

I don't do blow jobs, I can't bring myself to do it. I understand why guys like it - in the same way we like cunnilingus - but all the same... 

I suppose I could bring myself to do it if it was to please him, and sometimes I tell myself I need to make more of an effort, but I don't want to force myself so I just don't. Men know what to expect from me because I tell it to them straight, so they know what they're getting and what they're not! 

Communication is really important to me in a relationship. No man is ever going to force me into anything I don't feel like doing, but I'm not going to say I'll never do it. Of course I've tried, but I don't want to do it right now. 

If I really thought he was the one for me I'd reconsider, but right now it's not really something I think about and I'm happy that way.