Tom and Justina: "it comes naturally"

Justina and Tom are both 33 and have been married for 5 years. She's a teacher and he's a nurse.  

Tom: We've never talked about it, it just came naturally as we started to have sex. I didn't just say to myself one day "I know, 'm going to give her cunnulingus" - I like sex to be spontaneous. Oral sex and cunnilingus are part of a normal sex life."  

Justina: I'm not all that comfortable talking about it openly. I remember one day at work the girls started talking about oral sex and I was really embarrassed. I understand how women can be put off by giving blow jobs, by the smell or whatever, just the thought of it.

Tom: I think it's a question of being comfortable with each other - and of confidence, too. I remember the first time we did a 69 and it was incredible...it felt like it was natural, just between me and her, and that was the most important thing to me, it was personal and intimate. Everyone has their preferences and their own ways.