Lucy, 34, a beautician, has been married for 10 years and has 4 kids.
For a long time I thought of anal as being the ultimate in submission or part of S&M, but with the right partner, it can be fantastic!
Once I'd been with my husband for a while I totally accepted my body and I stopped worrying about modesty. Still, it took a long time for me to want anal and to get pleasure from it. If you're gentle, anal sex isn't violent and once you're used to it it's great.
I'd also heard that only men could achieve orgasm through anal sex, because you rub against the prostrate, which women don't have. But I've had better orgasms through anal than I've had through vaginal penetration. You just need to take your time and be gentle.
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