Article Plan Talking about sex: technique, taboos and opinions ▼    Pete: "Oral sex is part of foreplay"    Leah: "I don't"    Tom and Justina: "it comes naturally"    Clare: "I talk about it with my best friend"    Annie and Francis: "it's all about trust"    Oliver: "oral gives totally different sensations"    The art of self-pleasure, by Katherine    Jeremy: "a natural part of your sex life"    Getting to know your body, by Jude    Masturbation and our relationship, by Rob and Lindsay    Solo pleasure, by Kate    Joe: "the most natural thing in the world"    Anal sex, by Lucy    Greg's sexual fantasies    Megan: "Not really up for it"    Marie and Paul on breaking taboos