Improvisation

Matt, 32, doctor 

When a woman goes down on a man, there's an element of domination which, it must be said, excites us men. Also, seeing the act itself is particularly erotic.
 
Good oral sex is unplanned! The image of a guy with a beer, watching the footie and getting head is a real outdated cliché. It's better as an all-out erotic act with full-on erotic behaviour for example. I prefer getting head when it's improvised, when I'm not expecting it, rather than because it's something that should be done during sex. Why not on a beach, completely naked with the sound of crashing waves?

If I could give one piece of advice to the ladies, it would be to not copy actresses in porn films because first of all, it's their job, and secondly, you might end up hurting the man or yourself. Go slowly and take your time - there's no rush. Find the technique that you like and don't be afraid to use your imagination!