Domination

Paul, 33, graphic designer

I like the idea of surrendering myself, and being completely at the mercy of a lover. It feels like I'm being dominated. I love it when she starts by kissing me on my stomach, around my groin, then on my thighs... just the thought itself of her going down, thats what men fantasise about.

Even though it's practically impossible to give bad head, there are a few little things it's worth knowing for extra pleasure. For example, it's even better when a woman uses her hands to caress the penis, testicles, and even the rest of the body. Don't just stick to sucking: lick and kiss as well. And be gentle, because if you end up hurting him it may well ruin all your efforts....!