Your sex drives don't run in tandem!

When it comes to love, perfect harmony is a utopia none of us are ever going to achieve. You're not going to feel the same level of desire, appreciate the same caresses and touches or orgasm at the same time. You have different fantasies and different desires, and it's not always easy to be on the same wavelength as your partner.  

Matching your desire
As time goes by, those moments when you both want each other can get fewer and further between! If this is the case, you need to be a bit inventive if you want to get your partner in the mood. What better than a little striptease to get him in the mood? According to the experts, sexual desire in men comes from the visual, but ladies are less turned on by seeing their partners strip for them. It's far less effective! So for all the men out there, if you want to get your lady in the mood nothing works better than a well-timed compliment. Repeat: "You look gorgeous in that dress." Women love feeling beautiful and sexy and it turns them on. Remind us we're gorgeous - it works every time! 

Harmonising pleasure
Anatomically speaking, men appreciate rapid movements, while women are more receptive to slower, sensuous movements. Men aren't going to send their partners to heaven and back by going at it like a bull in a china shop! Tender, loving words and a soft touch work better. It's up to the ladies to tell their partners what they like and what they don't, and give them a bit of guidance to make them understand what they like. We all know communication is the key to sexual understanding!