The experts are divided over what to call the male G spot, and many women are simply in the dark as to where it is. The male G spot is located next to the urethra and the prostrate, on the back wall of the inside of the rectum, (separating the penis from the anus). OK, so it's not easy to find, but with a bit of perseverance, practice and...lube, impossible is nothing.

Put a finger up his anus and move your way around the rectal wall. When you feel a prominent spot the size of a walnut, you're there! Massage it with care, gently but firmly, for explosive results.

Our advice: Relax him (and get easy access) by going for his G spot while you give him oral sex or a hand job with your other hand.