Despite the image they often give out, all men have their doubts about their sexual prowess and could lose their cool in front of a woman who comes over as highly sexual. They need reassurance! Flatter him by showing him he's the only object of your desire and the only man on Earth who can turn you on like he does. Compliment the way he touches you and show him you're in ecstasy when he hits the spot. He'll never want to leave a woman who values him... 

If you're over-aggressive or too direct, not only will you scare him but it could all be over too quickly - and speedy, unsatisfying sex leaves you with a feeling of frustration. Learn to touch him gently and don't go straight for the obvious! Men like a gentle approach too. Caress his thighs ever so gently, let your fingers wander over his neck, hold his hand and take things slowly.

Our advice: Don't ever get motherly with him. Reassuring him is good; mothering him, however, is not. There's nothing guaranteed to send him bolting for the door quicker than talking to him like a kid. Example: "It's all right sweetheart, you're doing really well." Argh!