Fiona: Seize the moment

Fiona, 31, Manchester

Five years ago I bumped into a friend I'd been madly in love with at college. I'd never dared tell him I loved him, and so when he came back into my life I finally explained how I felt. He said how stupid it was, because he'd really liked me but thought I hated him! I thought "I've got to sziez the moment here - this must have happened for a reason." I think it applies to everything in life, but especially with relationships, so I'm not shy about making the first move. I don't care if they think I'm easy or if it doesn't work. In the scheme of things, it's nothing. And it works most of the time, anway.