Lee: I like to make the first move

Lee, 37, Durham

I've got a bit of a reputation as a ladies' man, but I prefer to think of myself as a charmer. It means the same thing, but it sounds better! I just love approaching women I don't know and trying it on - it's like a challenge. So when a girl makes a move on me I feel a bit like we're competing and I'm disappointed I don't get to play the game. It just doesn't do it for me.