Treat yourself to a mini makeover

If he's not paying you any attention, make him take notice by making him see you differently! Confine your shapeless clothes to the back of your wardrobe and take out your artillery. But rather than greeting him at the door in a bustier, accentuate your femininity by wearing clothes that he's not used to: a little sexy top, skirt or dress, heels...you know the score. The aim is to surprise him and show him that there are different sides to you, some of which he may have forgotten about.

Seize the moment: to get involved in a sport and get yourself a body to die for, treat yourself to a new hairstyle, or change your make-up. Do it not just for him but for yourself as well. You'll feel so much better for it afterwards. And who knows: faced with this new "you", he might want to sort himself out too and lose his man-flab!

IF you want to take it further, then why not offer him a new woman for a night? Calm down, we're talking about you! Borrow a wig and some clothes you'd never normally wear and lounge on the bed as you wait for him to arrive. He's not allowed to talk to his mystery lady, but sometimes actions speak louder than words.