Can you really boost your sexuality ?  Yes, the experts are all agreed.  To help you find your way, we’ve asked several eminent sexologists, including  French sexperts Gerard Leleu and Catherine Solano for tips on how to raise the temperature in the bedroom.  To improve your sexuality, you first need to understand the psychology of desire.  You also need to get to know your body better before you can explore new, exciting caresses for both of you.  As Dr. Leleu says, "first and foremost, sex is a language" and to learn how to speak it you first need to get to grips with the alphabet.