Use Oil

Try using oils and gels during sex, it will completely change your experience. Slippery textures mimic the vagina’s own secretions and are another symbolic, intimate way of making love. Use them during foreplay for closer contact and greater intimacy.

Dr G Leleu, sexologist and author of several books on the subject.

• Sex Starts in Your Head
• Be Confident
• Love Yourself, Love Your Man
• Eroticise Desire
• Get into Each Other's Routine
• Explore Mental Pleasure
• Stay Cool if it All Goes Wrong
• Rediscover Your Body
• Seek Out Pleasure
• More Lubrication, More Pleasure
• More Positions, More Pleasure
• Enjoy Non-Penetrative Orgasms
• Stimulate the Clitoris
• Learn to Hold Back
• Sex Gets Better With Practise
• Get Back into Kissing
• Use and Abuse Different Caresses
• Use Oil
• Slowly but Surely
• Stimulate Certain Areas
• Go For Oral Sex
• Oral Sex to Relight His Fire