It is essential for women to feel good about themselves to enjoy lovemaking. Pampering before sex is very stimulating and makes you feel more confident. Try taking a bath or shower and applying scented body oil or lotion for soft, sweet-smelling skin before you go to bed.
If you are relaxed and in feel attractive, you will feel much sexier and your little flaws won’t cross your mind in the heat of the moment.
Dr Ghislaine Paris, sexologist and author.