More men are starting to realise that where sex is concerned, for women, fast and furious is not necessarily the way to heaven. Often, a slower rhythm is much more pleasurable for women. Thrust speed does not equal virility! The vagina is sensitive to pressure rather than an in-and-out motion, so a slow withdrawal, followed by inch-by-inch penetration will create a pleasing pressure and heighten stimulation for both of you. It’s a winner for men as well, because by moving more slowly, they are holding back and their pleasure will be better for longer.
Dr Albert Barbaro, doctor and sex expert.