Good oral sex doesn’t necessarily involve deep-throating the whole penis. Moreover, mimicking sex with your mouth isn’t even especially pleasurable for some men. Try caressing with your lips, kissing, licking and flicking your tongue over the penis… Some women find the idea of a blow job repellent because they think they need to take as much of it in the mouth as possible, to give their partners pleasure. Make it easier on both of you and learn to enjoy it.
Dr Albert Barbaro, doctor and sex expert.