Stimulate the Clitoris

The only way to teach a man how to touch your clitoris in the right way, is to learn how to do it yourself!  Use self demonstration to explain how much pressure to use, how fast to go, where exactly to touch and when to stop and start….  We tend to touch our partners how we imagine they want to be touched, rather than in the ways they actually need.  This is true for women as well, but you won’t find out unless you ask, so why not get him to show you how he likes to masturbate himself?

Dr G Leleu sexologist and author of several books on the subject.