Stay Cool if it All Goes Wrong

It’s not easy for a man when he’s having erection problems, it’s a blow to his whole male identity.  A woman who understands that things don’t always go the way we want them to, who is gentle and reassuring and who doesn’t dramatise the situation, is a huge help to her partner.  Remind him that you have all the time you need and that it’s not the end of the world if it doesn’t happen this time.

It’s nice for men to be touched elsewhere as well, try stroking and kissing his inner thighs and testicles without focussing on the penis, it will make a change and may even set him back on the right track.  

FP, sex expert