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Your sexual profile
You want to be in on everything! If your friend Charlotte slept with a girl and enjoyed it, you think, "well, why not?". If your favourite magazine waxes lyrical about the merits of a full Brazilian, you book an appointment at the beauty salon. You regularly watch TV programmes that expose other people's sex lives and you think you should try everything at least once! You don't judge: each to their own.
But watch out for...
You put an incredible amount of pressure on yourself! Through fear of being labelled frigid, you force yourself to try things that you don't necessarily like. You confuse pleasure with performance.
Our advice
Try to live out your sexuality away from the norms imposed by society, by listening to your own desires and fantasies. Forget about clichéd beliefs like 'all women love sex toys' and stop interrogating yourself about whether or not you're good in bed. Ask your friends a few questions and you'll see that they're not all into anal sex and threesomes, and it doesn't make them frigid!