Whether you’re a sex bomb or a big romantic, most of us will admit that the first night with a new man can be a nerve-wracking experience.  You might have had your beady eye on him for a while, but when it comes to the first night, it's a minefield out there! 

First things first, you need to be prepared for your date.  Let things flow naturally, but there are also a few important dos and don’t  you should remember.  The crucial question is whether or not to sleep with him on the first night.  But once you’ve made the decision, what can you do if things don’t go to plan?

Our piece wouldn’t be complete without some professsional advice, so we’ve brought in a sex expert, who reveals his tips for a top first night.

Finally, you’re not alone in stressing over this issue, other readers have written in with their first-time experiences .  If you need someone to talk to, why not join our forum – discussing things with others will put your mind at rest before the big night.  Play your cards right and it could lead to many more !