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Don't let the first time be your last!

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He may be the spitting image of George Clooney, but if being tied to the radiator with his belt makes you feel uncomfortable, or whipping him with a feather duster while telling him he’s a naughty schoolboy makes you feel stupid, then don’t do it!

Remember that you should never do anything you don’t want to and you have every right to refuse to put yourself in a humiliating or embarrassing situation. Not only will giving in not help your self-esteem, but it could lead him to expect the same next time, if there is one.

Sarah Horrocks
29/06/2006

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How can you prepare yourself?

- Be Ready With...
   Condoms
   Fuzz-Free Body
   Beauty Essentials in Case You Stay at His
   Spare Toothbrush
   Pretty Underwear
   Clean Sheets
   Welcoming Home
   Spare Change and Phone Number for a Taxi
- Remember...
   He's Just as Nervous as you
   The First Time is Often Clumsy
   You Have the Right to Be Turned-On!
   Know What You're Doing

Dos and Don't of First-Time Sex

- Dos
   Express Your Desire
   Raise the Temperature
   Put Him at His Ease
   Guide Him
   Take the Initiative
   Be Sensible
   Watch Yourself
   Forget About Your Complexes
- Don'ts
   Play the Porn Star
   Talk About your Ex
   Neglect Hygiene
   Be Too Authoritative
   Dutch Courage
   Ask Awkward Questions
   Accept Everything

So, should you sleep with him on first date?

- Yes!
   Carpe Diem
   Footloose and Fancy-Free
   Thinking Practically
   Independent Lady
- No!
   Be Realistic
   Romance
   Patience is a Virtue
   Don't Make the Same Mistake Twice

What To Do When Things Don't Go As Planned

- You Can't Concentrate
- Looking for Seventh Heaven
- Mystery Encounters
- Erection Problems
- Early Ejaculation

Expert Advice

- Golden Rules
   Create an Air of Mystery
   Feel Sexy and Beautiful
   Make Your Weak Points Work for you
   Love Your Animal Side
   Does knowing someone for longer make for better sex?
- Tricks for Ladies
   The Art of Undressing
   Reserve Judgement
   Create a Love Nest
   See the Funny Side

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