I need tenderness when we make love

The conditions have to be right for you to feel desire.  Some women need to find the man they’re with sexy, others need to feel attractive themselves, or feel loved.  Most women are very sensitive to what their partners say and tender words of love can be a powerful aphrodisiac.

This is why Mills and Boon-style tales of romance and love sell so well.  Even without sex scenes, they can arouse, this is especially true for young women.  As they grow sexually, women tend to develop a less emotional sexuality, while men become more so.  Eventually, we meet each other in the middle and on the same wavelength, but it’s perfectly normal to need romance and tenderness during lovemaking.