Everyone has fantasies. If you don’t think you do, it’s more likely that you don’t recognise the thoughts you have as ‘fantasising’. Most people think that fantasies should be some sort of erotic film in their heads and for many, this is exactly what they are. But this isn’t the only way of using your erotic imagination, a fantasy is merely a thought which triggers sexual excitement, or makes you feel turned-on.
Some people’s fantasies may be X-rated, like having sex in front of other people, or in unusual places. For others, gentle, tender scenarios can be more of a turn-on, while more can have their imagination stimulated visually, for example by seeing a naked body that they can’t touch.
If you find simple, gentle ideas a turn-on, it can seem strange to think that other people’s fantasies can be more hardcore. Each to their own, our erotic imaginations are very personal and complicated!
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