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Communication problems in relationships: how to tell him what’s on your mind

Here's our guide to dealing with four potentially explosive situations, with analysis from our psychiatrist and relationships expert


  
Relationships Editor
19/06/2008
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Which subjects cause the most arguments in your relationship?
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Which subjects cause the most arguments in your relationship?
alililly
great advice ofcourse the best thing to do always is to talk in peace, but in my situation Ive tried and often he just goes mad, goes of and spills all the rubbish of our arguments to his mates, and I end up the "witch" in the eyes of his friends. The worst arguments between us two are because to me it seems that he always puts his friends first rather than me and our relationship. We always got out with them although I dont really enjoy their company I go anyway. But when it comes to my friends he just wont go! That is really annoying!
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edna141
this makes good reading

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kittiekat2
Washing the dishes! He always gets clean glasses and cups out whereas I use the same glass/cup twice if I'm having the same drink. I can even feel my anger mounting as he reaches for the cupboard with the cups in!
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katharinem
Never going to bed on an argument is definitely a good idea. My other half and I mostly argue about housework and always will I think, though he is coming round to the fact that he's a modern man :)
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schumigirl1956
I think its money matters that causes most arguements, has she might be moaning that her friend gets more housekeeping then what she gets.but we never argument about that sort of thing if i know i am not getting enough money,i tell my husband and approach by saying that a certain idea has gone up and if you still want it you must give me extra so i can still get it for you. my husband isnt tight, we are both very cautious about our money, we have made quite a number of scarifices to make ends meet.we discuss things together to work out the pros and cons before deciding if we want that item(s). we have been married nearly 30 years. i know it is not so long as others but we are getting there slowly but sure.We also believe never have a arguement before going a bed. have it out right and then make up and forgive one another and them forget it accured,
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neila171
My other half is definitely more pliable when he's post-coital. He even agreed to go and watch SATC: The Movie with me! lol
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