The consequences - Communication problems in relationships: how to tell him what’s on your mind

 
 in
 
soFeminine Newsletter
the love machine
Home / Relationships / Being in love / Keeping love alive

The consequences

 
His Countdown obsession was starting to get to her - The consequences
His Countdown obsession was starting to get to her

You've just told him he's boring and doesn't want to do anything, so chances are he's not going to be pleased! The way he sees it, you're the cruel one for making him budge when he's exhausted after a busy week at work and wants to chill out. 

A massive row ensues:
You: "You never want to do anything. You've got not interests. You're holding me back!"
Him: "All you have to do is open the door and walk out of it, I'm not stopping you!"
You: "But that's not the point, I want us to do things together"
Conclusion: "Fair enough, but I don't want to go shopping, eat sushi and watch chick flicks."

He storms out - on his own - and your plans for a nice weekend together are left in tatters. 

A better approach



  
  


2
Relationships Editor
19/06/2008
Send this page to a friend
Reader ranking:5/5 
Rank this page: 


Housework and relationships


Men who show you up in public


Relationship with the mother-in-law


Men who want to stay in and watch TV all day


Advice for communicating in a relationship


Top reader comments
Which subjects cause the most arguments in your relationship?
alililly : « great advice ofcourse the best thing to do always is to talk in peace... [read more] »
edna141 : « this makes good reading »
kittiekat2 : « Washing the dishes! He always gets clean glasses and cups out whereas I use the same glass/cup twice if I'm having the same drink... [read more] »
katharinem : « Never going to bed on an argument is definitely a good idea. My other half and I mostly argue about housework and always will I think... [read more] »
Comment on this article!
Which subjects cause the most arguments in your relationship?


Latest… 26/11/2009
Relationships News
Videos
Friends on Facebook - follow soFeminine.co.uk
Oh yes, just like the rest of the world and his wife SoFeminine...
All Relationships news
Video: The secrets behind the way you hold your drink
Can the way you wield your wine glass and the way he totes his beer give out key signals?
See all Relationships videos

Copyright © 1999-2009 soFeminine.co.uk
This week: Food & Drink Special : recipes from A to Z, by country, by duration, by type - Surnames - E-cards
auFeminin Group: auFeminin - enFemenino - alFemminile - goFeminin - soFeminine - Teemix - Joyce - Voyage Bons Plans - Santé AZ - Marmiton - Marmiton.es - Marmiton.it - Marmikid - Tiboo - Recettes de Valérie - Noms de famille - Toutes les villes - Parcours-Gourmand - Onmeda - HerVietnam