Female desire and a romantic atmosphere?

Yes. Female sexual desire isn’t usually compulsive like male sexual desire, so women rarely have a sudden and impulsive desire to have sex; normally our sex drive is awakened by certain elements. A romantic atmosphere and surroundings, lots of attention from your lover…

If some women find this a bit insulting, that’s because they see it as a limit to female pleasure, when in fact male and female desires are simply different. You could end up thinking, for example, that women could function in the same way as men when it comes to desire, and biologically that’s never going to happen!

As for men themselves, they have to pay attention to women’s needs in order to keep the female sex drive going.