During foreplay

If you’re like many couples nowadays, you fall into bed shattered after a long hard day at work and most days you've barely enough energy to pull on your pyjamas, yet alone have sex. When you do, you just tear your clothes off and get on with it.

Sound familiar? Well, you’re missing out on so much!

Caressing and touching each other with your clothes on is a real turn-on, gets you in the mood slowly, gives you the time to tell each other how much you fancy them and what you want, and makes it last longer!

You’ll also get out of the routine of doing it in the same way in the same bed every time…

• Why caressing?
• Why we should work on our touch
• If you're young or not ready for sex
• To remind you of your youth!
• To keep the magic alive
• To turn up the heat
• For fun
• For heightened pleasure
• Where to do it
• Where's best?
• During foreplay
• In public places (!)
• Come dancing...
• Dark corners
• Undress me...
• Handy hints!
• Parts of the body to target
• Where to go for...
• The neck
• The joints
• The back
• The face
• The hands and feet
• More ways of caressing
• Using other parts of your body to caress
• Your tongue
• Your nails
• Your breath
• Your feet, elbows and chest
• Sweet nothings...
• Fantasies
• Massage parlour game
• The name of the game...
• The parlour
• The script
• The 2-minute mark
• Let yourself go
• Your stories
• Your stories
• Expert touch
• Waiting for the right time
• Tender touch
• Keeping him horny
• Abstaining
• Safe sex
• Spiritual love