I feel sexual pleasure, but I don't feel anything like the intense orgasmic waves everyone talks about! Am I normal?

At the beginning of our sexual lives, we are very often disappointed.  It feels like nothing in comparison to what we see in films and magazines and we may even feel a little let-down.  But sexual pleasure is something which you learn more about as you get older, the main thing is to learn to cultivate the pleasure that you feel, so that little by little it gets bigger and better.  It’s true that orgasms are sometimes extraordinary, but very often they are simply nice feelings, not necessarily incredible or earth-shattering.  That’s what is so exciting about them, they are always different.