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Men and sex: their little secrets...

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Erection = the 'non-stressed' position

This is why men often get erections naturally in their sleep, and it's also why sometimes, in the heat of the moment, if he's stressed out he can't get an erection.

He has to be relaxed to get an erection, so you don't necessarily need to turn him on more, you need to relax him - subtly. A massage can be more effective than a strip-tease...

Sarah Horrocks
04/02/2008

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Article Plan Men and sex: their little secrets... ▼

Secrets

   Secret behaviour
   The first time: do they get nervous?
   Men can fake it too
   Foreplay
   Changing rhythm
   Erection = the 'non-stressed' position

Fantasies

   The truth
   Size matters?
   Masturbation is normal
   What you want
   Can you tell if it's his first time?

A few facts

   If he doesn't have regular sex, he comes too quickly
   Many men know nothing about contraception
   They don't always know where your clitoris is
   The first time, women are disappointed more often than men
   An erect penis can be curved

What we have to accept

   Be realistic
   Erection problems
   Many men don't kiss and caress enough
   We have to tell them what we want

Intimate truths

   The penis is his most erogenous zone
   Wearing condoms
   Pulling out before ejaculation doesn't stop you getting pregnant
   Sex is important to men

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Erection = the 'non-stressed' position