admits her children don't spend a lot of time with their father.
The former 'Baywatch' babe has two sons, Brandon, 14, and 12-year-old Dylan, with ex-husband Tommy Lee but says she takes responsibility for the majority of the parenting as the Motley Crue rocker isn't really a hands-on father.
She said: "No, they don't spend a lot of time with their father. I think they will spend more time with him when they are older, but Tommy is eternally 16."
"It's not that I don't like them being with him. He spends as much time with them as he can. I just came to the realisation that our relationship. it just is what it is."
Although they are no longer together, Pamela - who has also been married to Kid Rock and Rick Salomon - says she will always love Tommy and hasn't ruled out getting back with him.
She told Fabulous magazine: "I have tortured myself over it for years and was devastated and depressed for much of the last 15 years about that relationship. It's mostly about the kids. I think I've just tried to attach myself to anybody who'd create a family, but the people I attracted weren't really the fairytale I planned. I think I'd just rather be alone and take care of my kids
and wait it out. Something will happen one day. If not, my kids will look after me.
"Tommy? Life's not over yet. Of course we love each other. But we don't have to live together. Romance is tragic, so let's leave it. My parents are still together and madly in love."