Feel the rhythm
Now it's time to really get into the swing of things.
Work into a steady rhythm until you're hitting the spot. "Start slow and soft," advises sexpert Rebecca Lowrie. "Eventually you can speed up, but avoid going too fast unless you know for sure he likes that."
Dr. Stocchi says that most men go for a vigorous downstroke (pulling away from his body) and a lighter upstroke (back up the shaft), but warns against pulling his skin too hard - you're going for pleasure, not pain!
"The best method of finding out the correct rhythm is to have your man place his hand over yours or yours over his to see the motion that he prefers..." he suggests.
Once your guy's reaching the point of no return, you want to maintain a steady speed and pressure, as it's the repetitive motion that'll seal the deal.
