Male G spot

The male G spot is located next to the urethra and the prostrate, on the back wall of the inside of the rectum, (separating the penis from the anus).

OK, so it's not easy to find, but with a bit of perseverance, practice and...lube, anything is possible.

Not every guy is going to want a finger up his special place, so knowing your audience is really important. If you get the green light then here's how to go forward.

Our sex tip: Going for the big G requires a bit of careful preparation and so we suggest that you warm him up a bit by licking, sucking and kissing his perineum and (if you're feeling particularly adventurous - his anus too) whilst you're giving him oral sex.

You can then move on to massaging the whole area, maybe put a tiny bit of lube there too, the main thing is to have him nice and relaxed.

Once you feel he's ready, gently put a finger up his anus and move your way around the rectal wall. When you feel a prominent spot the size of a walnut, you're there!

Massage it with care, gently but firmly, for explosive results. You can even use a small vibrator there or anal beads and butt plugs if he really likes it.