Communication, expressing desire

We're talking about communicating with you guy here, like crazy I-want-to-cum-right-now communication.

For starters it'll give you both a confidence boost when you're in the heat of the moment as well as giving you both useful directions to take your sex sessions to the next level.

For shy types, little sighs of satisfaction and handy pointers, as simple as "Here, there, higher, right there" are a step on the way!

More verbal types can let him know he's doing it right with cries of ecstasy, and can give more specific instructions such as: "I love it when you touch my *****" or "It drives me crazy when you put your hands there" or "I love it when you kiss me down there." 

Once you get into it, you'll soon lose those inhibitions and you might find yourself surprised at the language you find yourself using!

Everyone's a winner here.

Many men admit to being turned on by hearing women cry with pleasure or use vulgar language in bed. And if you express yourself properly you won't need to bite your lips with pain if his idea of 'stimulation' feels as if he's scrubbing a floor or scrabbbling in his pocket for loose change...

Our sex tip: Don't give him military orders. You don't want to scare him off or scare him out of doing what you want him to do. And if he's a delicate, romantic flower then talking dirty might not sound like music to his sensitive ears!